I recently read a very cute and funny post on Facebook that a man wrote to “help out other men” in the area of buying for your wife or lady a Christmas gift. If you haven’t read it you can find it here . I think the writer was onto something though. As wife’s and mommy’s we always put ourselves last. I have already talked a bit on the blog about this and how I struggle with “self care” and I have been working on it. I also love to buy gifts… giving gifts for me is a love language but for my husband it is not so I have to help him when it comes to Christmas and Birthday’s. I will be honest though after being together over 10 years now he is getting much much better but as a typical guy he needs so very clear big hints as to what I would love to see under the tree. I already feel incredibly blessed to have 3 healthy beautiful babies and a handsome healthy hubby and a beautiful new home so really my heart is already full I don’t need anything but since its tradition and since some people want to share love with me by giving me gifts I have compiled a list of things I would love to receive and maybe this will help you or your men as well.